It'll be 2 months on Monday since my dad died. 2 months. Most mornings when I wake up I still expect him to be upstairs starting breakfast. Its funny cause all the little things about him that used to drive me nuts are the things I miss the most.
He definitely led such a full life. No one can ever say he didn't take risks nor can anyone say he was boring. He had 12 kids!! 17 grandchilden! 2 great grandchildren!! Granted I'm the only one from he and my mother's marriage but still. How he had time for all that plus worked 2 or 3 jobs back then, I'll never know.
I know when someone close to you dies it tends to make you think about your own mortality and many people even begin to put their own affairs in order. Don't get me wrong...death scares me but I'm not about to start my funeral plans just yet.
The thing about my dad being a poor kid from Lawrence and the oldest of 6 was that he still managed to make something for himself. He went into the Marines, traveled the world (even though it was for war) and had a family. While his first marriage may not have lasted he and my mom managed to connect even though there were 24 years between them. Then came me. TA DA!!! Here we are 28 years later!
Anyway this whole thing got me thinking about things I want to do before its my turn to meet up with my dad again. So here is a list of 50 things I want to do be die in no particular order.
The List:
1. Go skydiving
2. Take a cruise around the world
3. Fly Concorde to Europe
4. Take the Holocaust tour in Europe (morbid yes but I'm a historian gimme a break!)
5. Tour England to see the Tower of London, Ann Boleyn artifacts, & what's left of Elizabethan times.
6. See the Northern Lights
7. Get back to Washington D.C. (I'd definitely appreciate it more now)
8. Act in a movie
9. Learn how to rock climb
10. Visit all the islands of Hawaii
11. Get my Ph.d in History
12. Visit Australia
13. Visit Dubai
14. Drive a race car
15. Go white-water rafting
16. Walk the Great Wall of China
17. Visit the site of Pearl Harbor
18. Take a road trip across the country
19. Visit the pyramids in Egypt
20. Discover a cure for Type 1 Diabetes (not likely but hey I can dream)
21. Live in Ireland for a year
22. Meet the love of my life and remarry
23. Go to every tropical place possible
24. Set foot on each of the 7 continents
25. Learn a new language
26. Dive with a whale shark
27. Write a book
28. Travel into space
29. Spend 24 hours in the jungle
30. Run a marathon
31. Spend at least 1 night in a storied/historic hotel
32. Attend the Olympics
33. Visit the birthplace or gravesite of a cultural icon
34. Visit Graceland
35. Shake hands with someone who has truly changed the country (for the better)
36. Teach English in a foreign country
37. Learn to fly a plane
38. Be able to forgive those who have hurt me most.
39. Hike across a glacier
40. Ride all of the best roller coasters in the world
41. Have a 1:1 conversation with the President in the Oval Office
42. Play baseball at Fenway Park
43. Conquer a fear
44. Tell all the people I love exactly how much they mean to me
45. Take at least one photograph that becomes famous
46. Visit a spa for an entire week
47. Visit Machu Picchu
48. Save enough money to be able to dive down to the Titanic in a submarine
49. Fall deeply in love -- helplessly and unconditionally.
50. Reflect on my greatest weakness, and realize how it is really my greatest strength
